few days ago I went on the night ride a scooter. I will not say it was cold, the thermometer showed 0 ° C and wind gusts will inevitably point to ending the season motorcycle. I must admit - to notice.
I stand at the crossroads next to me stopped the man in the car and how it is to meet our gaze. This looks at me, probably looks at the thermometer in your car then looking at me, knocking my head.
smiled, because I really pity people who only right ideas to life.
smiled, for behold, this little gesture also inspired me. It reminded me to be a similar reaction to something that still does not want to have impact - emotional, very emotional, never mind that without a goal - the main thing that the sender enhancing their value.
October 9, 2009 Barack Obama received the Nobel Peace Prize, and how rarely that actually sparked absolute compliance Internet posts. In onetowskiej poll 84% of respondents considered the Nobel committee decision is incorrect.
Compliance beliefs differ, however, in terms of their form of expression, showing the level of competence "assertive expression of criticism" among Internet users. Unfortunately
low.
I say "unfortunately" because usually the most emotional comments hurt themselves commenters. The form has yet to express emotions affect the way they live, affect their intensity also affects our perception of from others.
Let us, therefore, ways of expressing criticism because it may thus find it easier to recognize your own style. No matter what you think Peace Noblu for Obama.
There are four ways to express their beliefs. Their distribution as in the case of other skills make up a set called assertive attitude to differentiate between their own rights (the right to have their own opinion), and the rights of others (decision-making and take responsibility for the consequences of those decisions).
And so in the context of the Nobel Prize for Obama could accept 4 styles express criticism:
Style passive - passive style is a message containing the message "You're alright, I'm not okay" which in practice is revealed variability in our opinion. But the Internet is not the place for passivity, because anonymity allows yet to feel okay, so things by force of passivity was not.
This adds up to very optimistic.
aggressive style - aggressive style is a message containing the message " You're not fine, I'm fine" , which in practice takes the form of personal attacks, insults other labeling. Anonymity allows you to feel okay, so you can forget about the others.
were many examples, and each subsequent point to a black and white vision of a world in which only one party may be right.
Here are some of them:
Being black , unhappy and Nobel homosiem already in his pocket. Ass licking imperatorom has a long history. dealer box in the chapter awards unless too much old ramoli sitting because I have no idea who to give awards. Today shame to be Norwegian!, It's not a sensation-a scandal! For what this clown got the Nobel Prize?
manipulative style - style of manipulating the message containing the message " thanks to you, I am more in order" , which in practice takes the form of ridicule, shaming, comparing the other hand, and is about to self-esteem.
Here too there were many examples showing that while we're on something we lose (the decision of the Nobel Committee is far from our expectations), we use this fact to strengthen its position, that's normal valuing, because creativity is after all for the price.
Here are some examples:
Prize for Obama can only be compared to new single Chylińska. Both events are equally absurd. This year, two things have lost their previous value: national mourning and the Nobel Prize. I suggest the following year candidacy superman. He not only had in the plans, but also personally saved the world. Sam saw in a movie. The next room for Kononowicz! With great vision and hope for a world without bandyctwa, biurokractwa and lachmactwa. Whew! Well, that did not get it Cichopek Barry! Nobel Peace as well able to get the clan or Rysiek Doda, but why Obama? Optimally, it would be if he were in addition to a homosexual, then the bank would like an Oscar for good measure. Saba dog should get, but that does not bitten 460 members as he could, and I ask where were the parents?
assertive style - assertive style is a message containing the message "You're okay and I'm okay," , which in practice means respect for the other party while maintaining his own, different opinion.
Surprisingly, despite the anonymity of the Internet, some commenting able to maintain respect for the Nobel committee and present their own different view.
Some Examples:
for what I do not understand the merits of Obama got the Nobel Prize, for reasons given in my opinion is not reliable. Returning to the topic, the fact that Obama does not deserve this award, is just wait, or it will force him to take the S peacekeeping operations, or use the situation in a negative way. Irena Sendler for saving the children during the Second World War, Nobel not get ... Obama gets it now, appearing on the international scene two years ago ... Strange and sad.
And you, which style is closest to?
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