values \u200b\u200bare all important to us. Lend us the direction and responsible for motivation. There are reasons why we take action.
family, development, career, self-determination, security, money, entertainment, spirituality, acceptance of others they are just a few examples.
Despite such great importance, our values \u200b\u200bare often unconscious, and give of yourself know the most in situations of internal conflict.
Do you also think that learning languages \u200b\u200bis an important thing? Often I ask this question on my training and what's interesting I never heard answers - I do not think .
And did you ever learn a language and not learn it? - carry on. Oh yes ! - Fall response (you too answer. Go ahead - I am also so I have - I learned 13 languages \u200b\u200bof which I know all of a sudden 3).
Why do not you learn English / Italian / French / German? - I ask, and the participants almost as responding: Because I'm lazy, did not feel like I have not seen the need , with each new response blaming more and more.
Are you too so you have? Are you also occurred to blame yourself?
It's very interesting, because you're not lazy, however, did not you do not want, you are a victim of the conflict, which, as the revolution devours its own children.
Knowledge of foreign languages \u200b\u200band the rest - Your value of nothing Kargul Pawlak began to argue, and the more I wrangled, the more one does not remember what they went and who was right.
either won, she put on her, but despite winning, and so can not triumph, because what a triumph it does not bring satisfaction. And even though the entire conflict has developed in you, you also do not triumph, because you're a victim.
've become a victim, because I ran out of your decision. Ran out of the decision, because this even if it is not always accurate source of pride.
Why write about this? I am writing this because awareness of our values \u200b\u200bis of extreme importance for the resolution of internal conflicts.
What is important to me? Are my values \u200b\u200bbe reconciled? Which of the two values \u200b\u200bis a priority? If I had to resign from the value of either, which would you choose? These are questions that allow you to make informed decisions, which are always better than a twist of fate.
decisions are nevertheless always a source of pride.
awareness of our values \u200b\u200bis also important in relationships with other people, particularly in the context assertiveness.
Self-determination, and companionship (friendship) are frequent brakes locking people before saying a simple NO.
Here, too, when the conflict is growing alone, probably one of the sides wins, disgust, however, consumes both parties disgust consumes you - the most concerned.
say no - you feel guilty, say so - do you feel used, and all because of the lack of decision. Interesting is not it?
Fortunately, you can always choose. You can help yourself, so ask: What is important to me? Are my values be reconciled? Which is more important? If I had to resign, from whence the values \u200b\u200bwhich would you choose?
Ask and take decisions, because here is the whole point.
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